Sunday, December 7, 2014

Hey Dude this is Good advice!


1.   Share your feelings of love, devotion, and commitment with her. Especially when the infatuation has faded.
2.   Touch her: hold her hand, rub the back of her neck, kiss her in public, rest your hand on the small of her back, guide her through a crowd, offer your hand when she’s getting out of the car.
3.   Look up at her every so often when you’re busy. Let your eyes do the talking. They should say, “I admire you. I’m so happy we’re together. I love you.”
4.  Make sure she knows what you want to provide for her. Speak and demonstrate the life she will have with you.
5.   Be a true man. Have an old fashioned side to you. Do not air every emotion. Buck up when you have to. Cultivate character because she needs to be able to trust your rock-solid values; be strong in your life, especially your work and your self-respect. Be confident.
6.   Make her feel that, if it’s within your power, you will give her the things her heart desires. A good woman will never take advantage of this. She will only become sweeter and she will shower you with appreciation and respect.
7.   Tell her you love her children and want to provide a great life for them. Act loving and engaged when you are around them. Remember that it’s on YOU to build the relationship with them, not the other way around.
8.   Be a man of your word: Call when you say you will, show up on time, don’t cancel on her, don’t keep her guessing. SHOW YOUR INTEREST in a loving, self-respecting way.
9.   Tell her she’s the most beautiful woman you’ve ever seen and really mean it.
10.  Never point out her surface flaws. She already knows them. She harbors the secret hope that you don’t notice them.
11.  Be patient if she takes a little longer to do her hair and make-up. She wants to be gorgeous for you.
12.  Be both a visualizer AND a man of action. Having both of these traits will set you worlds apart from most men.
13.  Be a skillful and generous lover. Take your time and adore her body. Do what it takes to please her. Create the ideal environment for her to be fully adventurous with you.
14.  Be clear, clean, and live purely in your truth. Do not have addictions, unconquered demons, inappropriate relationships with women, or unmanaged health issues. Have clear boundaries with the world.
15.  Love to have fun with her. Go out, see things, do things, exercise with her, dance with her, take her out to eat, squeeze her in public. LAUGH A LOT!

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